Things I should have told my younger self, or should I have?

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Have you ever wondered  what you might tell your younger self if you could?

The immediate thoughts that spring to mind for me are, don’t date him, be more confident, don’t worry about what other people think.

What I really should’ve told myself was that math doesn’t matter in my older life and that I was going to be happy eventually.

There is no plan for your life. (Religious beliefs aside) .  We are meant to make mistakes, have life experiences, be sad, as    that is what shapes us to be the person we are, for better or worse.  But that’s just my opinion.

if you are one of the lucky ones who had no tears , despair , heartbreak, but only a joyful childhood , then I’m happy for you. I believe that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

If I went back to my younger self and said not to date ‘the bad guy’ , I wouldn’t have my oldest son.

If I told myself not to make the move to the United States I would’ve missed out on so much!

If I hadn’t kissed a lot of frogs, I wouldn’t have found my prince.

Changing history might change your life as it is today, but it would also erase some of the most wonderful things that happened to you , because one would impact the other.

I believe that life is for living in the moment.  Don’t look back and regret  as you cannot change it now , but look forward with  hope for a happy future.

I asked my father what he would tell his younger self, he thought about it for a moment and then said he would whisper in his ear

” Google”